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Digging
a Hole
Ok...
now I know guys don't take hints easily, but this guy... Oi
Vey! What a doof! I wrote to this guy a few times at the end
of August & early September. He originally responded to
Wit
and Sarcasm Out The Wazoo. He was cute, he was funny,
but.... He just... didn't have "it." Actually, he
did a lot of boneheaded things, and still does them in this
e-mail. Well, you'll see the "fatal errors" he made.
Still
at it, aye Lorena? :)
Lorina:
Fatal Error #1 - Repeatedly spelled my name wrong. That's
a BIG no-no. It's in my damn e-mail address! I could understand
not spelling it right after not seeing it for a while, but
when we were writing, he still spelled it wrong. My boss's
name is Jim. I guess it would be ok for me to call him Jem?
Well
at least now you're not advertising as "NYC area."
Decided to stay around Philly or still moving to the Big Apple??
Anyway you dropped the ball numerous times writing me (all
after I toldja I had a kid), so I don't know why I bother.
Fatal
Error #2 - A classic case of TMI - not so much that he told
me he had a kid, but he told me that the kid's mother had
mental/emotional problems, needed medication and didn't take
it as prescribed, AND mentioned how much of his income went
to child support.
Fatal
Error #3 - ME? Date someone with a baby? Yeah, right.
Fatal
Error #4 - Doesn't recognize a cold shoulder when he sees
one.
I
guess you're just too damn cute and witty. ;)
Fatal
Error #5 - I'm cute and witty -- he's not.
Plus
I I now reside in Elkins Park, Montgomery County (Near Glenside)
(and not St. Peters, MO) as of 4 days ago makes me fair game
on your dating roster.
Fatal
Error #6 - Assuming I'd want to go out with him after not
even writing to him in over a month, just because he was geographically
closer.
So
what's new? A lot here. Write if you have time. I'm having
a love/hate relationship with my new apartment/job/city. Like
all my relationships, it's quietly intense.
Fatal
Error #7 - Speaking of this "other relationships, along
with the TMI of the kid with the crazy mom, he also told me
about his "friend" who was his 41 year old f---buddy.
He was 25, and "she used to dance and do gymnastics,
and is VERY well preserved for an older woman. I know we'd
never be anything beyond friends, and she does to. So we're
both very comfortable with the additional spice." Yeah,
that's appealing.
Hope
all is well with Scott,
Fatal
Error #8 - Who the hell is Scott? Scott Evil? Or is he thinking
about Jonn, who I told him I was sort of seeing so he'd get
the hint I wasn't really interested? (And, by the way, he
always spelled Jonn as John, too.) The guy must be rather...
dim, or just doesn't pay attention.
Web
design in beauttiful Mid-Penn, and the quest for Dr. Evil-in-a-man.
(...do you remember??)
Fatal
Error #9 - While I am a "super genius" and do remember
this guy, he doesn't ever say who he is!
P.S.
Nice pic, liked the park bench shot better though, more leg.
;)
Fatal
Error # 10 - A little too suggestive early on, which was one
of the other reasons I wasn't interested.
Cindy:
This doofus is an obvious case of DG...Yep...Damaged Goods....Now,
I know that everyone has their little quirks and insecurities,
it is not wise to demonstrate these upon meeting someone new...Let
alone, demonstrate these qualities in an e-mail...
To
the Cinderoo...this reads like this duded is PISSED... Come
on now...doing personals is like a casting call...it's a real
long shot to find someone who really clicks and is worthy
of a face to face audition and even more unlikely to actually
dig someone and hook up (not to say this could never happen...)
And I thought that even if ya don't meet someone...at least
you enjoyed the adventure...it's meant to BE FUN!
And
this dude sounds DESPERATE...as we all know, there is nothing
fun about that... while this doofus seems to have some clue
that you are not diggin' being a replacement mom... Why does
he bother? Because he's DG!
Note:
While I do not state in all my ads that I don't want to date
men with children, I would NEVER date someone with a baby
under a year old. People with babies have enough on their
minds without dating someone, AND if they were together as
a couple that recently, there's a pretty good chance of them
getting back together. Having a kid is stressful on a relationship,
and I'd rather see someone give it another chance. But, it's
just too much to go into this sort of thing in every ad!
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